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  1. Chanel Lee
    Mar 17, 2020 @ 7:45 am

    Beautiful. This is explained so well and i think that every woman can relate. As much as we grow and become independent, we are still expected to aspire to submissiveness. It’s a battle woman all over the world face everyday.

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    • Lizza Tshowa
      Mar 17, 2020 @ 11:07 am

      Hey Chanel Lee. Thank you for your response. I believe that the man is the head of the house and family and the woman as his help. I’m Christian and I believe there is a reason God set it like that. The man leads (whether he has money or not or we earn more than him or not) with love and we as the lady submits. That word submit does not mean bow down and allow yourself to be trampled on, but it means to Honour him, and his duty would be to love me as his wife still, despite circumstances. Whether he can financially provide at that moment in time or not.
      Unfortunately the society we live in have twisted the word submit and many use it as a way to gain power (which is usually through violence).

      It is vital that we speak with our partners before committing to a life time entity such as marriage✨

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  2. Acacia
    Mar 21, 2020 @ 8:46 am

    Wow this is a deep topic. I personally think that I should respect and honor my husband regardless of my earnings. He is still the head of the family no matter what the circumstances are. And if I am to buy an expensive car while he is driving his…I will talk to him about it and see how he feels about it, and if that will make him feel less of man…we can work around measures of buying two new cars that both suit us🤷🏽‍♀️…all I am trynna say is that, I’d not want to put my husband in a situation where he feels inferior to me and that whatever everyone brings to the table is FOR US (no longer my money or his money)…before making a decision I will sit down with him and talk to him and we both gonna decide what to do with OUR money.

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  3. 👖Who wears the pants? (Part II)👖 – Poems&Collectives_by_Tshowa
    Mar 26, 2020 @ 5:31 pm

    […] from the previous post. Part I can be found at the following link in case you may have missed it.https://poemsandcollectives.wordpress.com/2020/03/16/who-wears-the-pants/?preview=trueOur Part II responses seem to come more from the ladies this time around, and I have ended this part […]

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  4. Grace Kay's
    Mar 27, 2020 @ 6:02 am

    What a wow!
    That was so deeeeeeeeep. Thank you, I learnt a lot actually😊.

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